Friday, July 24, 2015

小鱼刺与鸡骨头


张爱玲写说「小鱼刺与细碎的鸡骨头最容易卡喉咙,甚至于可以致命。」爱情裡尽多这类的小鱼刺与鸡骨头。基友S有一双穿了多年,斑斑点点的旧球鞋,偏爱它通风舒适。他男友对这双鞋子很有意见,常常「不够体面,怎麽可以穿出街?」、「太肮髒了!」不满的说。基友S倒不以为然。后来有一回,男友竟悄悄的把鞋子丢掉,他们俩大吵一架,从此各奔西东。唐唐觉得应该还有一些什麽导致他们分手。基友S坦然「的确有些问题了,不过那双旧球鞋是最终导火线。」基友P难以消化的鸡骨头则是男友漫不经心的态度,对他说些什麽,都一副无所谓的感觉。「总感觉他对这份感情不太认真。」一直活在不安全的氛围的他到了后来再也无力去摸索爱情的去向,默然的慧剑斩情丝。如果吃东西时再细心一点、温柔一点、从容一点,小鱼刺与鸡骨头绝不会造成大伤害。俺想如果那男友自动自发替基友S洗一洗那双球鞋,又或者送他另一双同品牌的球鞋,会不会好一点。所谓的相爱本就是把两个不同兴趣志向喜好,不同世界的人丢在一块,在浮晃的岁月裡互相磨损消耗,直到彼此找到一个最舒适的相处方式为止(诡异的是如果同样世界的人在一起,会分得更快)。小鱼刺与鸡骨头永远都在那裡,你愿意为了解决这些咬啮性的小烦恼而付出多少努力?一忍再忍,难忍还是忍?愿意顾全大局而委曲求全吗?这当中的拿捏隐藏了比相对论还要深奥的哲理。

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